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    7/7/2009

    形式&内容

      时间是我们没有办法回避的东西                       
          他像几乎所有的父亲一样,爱给我讲道理,讲一些让人刮目相看的道理。
          他总说形式和内容一样重要,恨不得在我八岁的时候就让我明白“酒香不怕巷子深”其实是个笑话。“内容是必须,但在别人无法触及内容的情况下,形式显得尤为直白。”(稍稍整理一下,他的原话没有那么书面)
          ............
         
          他似乎永远对我有意见,总是在不经意间假装他很瞧不起我。然后告诉我他对我的工作性质有多不满,“你这个推销员的工作我看不是长久之计。”尽管他其实并不明白,中国的财富管理行业未来会有多大的发展空间,大幕远远没有拉开,而未来的景色我已经能憧憬个大概了。
          《成长的法则》里说,我们对父母亲的认识,总是从高大 — 平凡 — 一无是处 — 刮目相看 — 相知相识 — 伟大。我想,25岁的我,可能还只停留在那个阶段。
           ............
     
          我的工作其实不光鲜亮丽,Private Banker也只是个西装笔挺的sales而已,尤其是在行业刚起步的中国,尤其是我这样的菜鸟。工作得越来越没有技术含量,没有技术含量倒不是工作性质本身,而是我们容易置身其中得过且过。
          很多时候,我还是在磨嘴皮子;很多时候,我还是只能讲一个宏观;很多时候,我还是知其然而不知其所以然;很多时候,我还是无法第一时间自信满满地回答客户甩过来的专业问题......
          他说我缺“两把刷子”,尽管他说不出这“两把刷子”具体是什么。不过我好像有点懂了。
          ............
     
          工作上,形式我有了,缺内容;学识上,内容和形式我都缺!想来想去,似乎只有一个空壳子?
          一个high level的男人一定不是我这样的。

    除了眼药水和眼镜,还需要一点点思维才能帮我们看清问题

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    小清淡 -wrote:
    内容为王
    一起加油!
    July 30
    Narcissewrote:
    似乎对父亲总是有这个螺旋过程。对母亲,在我这儿,早已经是伟大。
    July 20
    悠悠wrote:
    看的见的气质是有看不见的修养做基础的,给自己升级很重要哒~~
    July 9
    nara tongwrote:
    要不要考虑一下再读个学位看,呵呵
    July 9
    Nic 顾wrote:
    差不多是这么个螺旋上升。
    July 8
    Leah Lingwrote:
    我觉得是
    高大 — 一无是处 — 平凡 — 刮目相看 — 相知相识 — 伟大
    July 8

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